DAY 5 — The Ink Beneath the Edits
Even after the erasing, the first draft still bleeds through.
Prompt:
What have you kept trying to outgrow, bury, or evolve past — only to find it’s still shaping what you do?
Years ago, at the very beginning of my faith journey, I went on a Christian men’s retreat expecting to be handed some kind of spiritual job description.
I was maybe three months in, still figuring out how to pray without sounding like I was writing a bad poem.
But I went with the full expectation that I’d walk away with a title.
My calling.
My sword.
Hilarious, right?
After a long day of intense teaching and personal revelation, I found myself sitting in a hot tub with a group of men, sharing our hearts.
A stranger I had never met came up to me, hesitated, and said he felt like God wanted him to share something about my spiritual gifting.
I perked up.
This was the moment.
The big reveal.
He looked at me sincerely and said:
“Your spiritual gift is Encouragement.”
And that was it.
Encouragement?
It hit like a wet noodle on a soggy pancake.
I didn’t say anything, but inside I was thinking:
Really? That’s the gift?
I wanted something with danger and grit.
I wanted to be a warrior —
not a cheerleader.
For years, I tabled the thought.
I didn’t reject it outright.
I just quietly filed it under “maybe it’ll make sense someday,”
and kept chasing other things — shiny, strong, impressive things.
Encouragement didn’t feel central.
It didn’t feel sacred.
It didn't feel like me.
But here’s the thing:
The gift grew in me anyway.
It wove itself into how I showed up —
in one-liner texts,
in hallway moments,
in offhand comments that turned out to matter more than I expected.
Not the “You’ve got this!” kind of encouragement.
Not cheerleading.
Something quieter.
Something truer.
And it wasn’t until maybe two months ago — no exaggeration —
that I saw it clearly for what it was.
I was doing a journaling exercise, trying to name the mission behind my work —
my writing, my book, everything I’ve been building.
The prompt was to name it in one word.
So I did.
Encouragement.
Immediately I was overcome with a wash of knowing,
a breath of revelation:
That’s it.
That’s what I’ve been doing all along.
I just didn’t get it.
There have been moments — more than I can count — when I almost stayed silent.
I figured someone else would say it better.
Or that my input wasn’t really needed.
But something in me pressed forward —
just a few words.
Not grand.
Not polished.
Just… true.
Not “You’ve got this.”
More like:
“I see you.
I know how hard that was.
And what you did — and what you're still doing — matters.”
It’s not about inspiration.
It’s about recognition.
Not the kind that stirs a crowd —
but the kind that steadies a soul.
The kind that reminds someone who they are,
before they even realize they’ve forgotten.
That’s the real meaning of encouragement:
not hype, breath.
Not noise, presence.
When the words land, there is always this moment —
a shift in the eyes,
a spark in the spirit,
like something heavy just got put down,
and something holy picked back up.
That’s when I know it’s real.
That it mattered.
That it was worth it — all of it.
It's what I’m here for.
Encouragement isn’t just what I do.
It’s the current I move in — whether I mean to or not.
It’s what stirs to life in me when I sense someone slipping —
losing their footing,
their vision,
their sense of who, or why they are.
It is the ink that keeps bleeding through every edit —reminding me that what I once called soft
was actually sacred.
And it was always me.
This post is part 5 of 7 of The Voice Between the Lines —
a 7-day return to your Sacred Story.
You can start at Day 1 or jump in wherever the whisper finds you.
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You’re just awesome! This unpacking is beautiful. How you show up in a way that was completely different than you thought you should or how you minister in a way more untraditional. This is what it is all about. The awareness of how it means something you just need to remove the preconceived notions of what that is supposed to look like.
Hope is my word. As a camper in my teens my hope was to gain a relationship with Christ. I did. Then my hope was to help the teens I worked with to develop a relationship with Christ. Many did. My newest hope was to learn to live as a paralyzed adult still "walking" with Christ. I have and am now focusing on being there for those who are newly paralyzed to be a beacon of hope for them as well as being a voice of understanding and comfort. Our Lord works in miraculous ways.